Anger

We process grief in stages. It passes through denial, anger, guilt, helplessness and finally acceptance. These may vary from person to person, in different order, emotions are last thing to follow any predicted pattern.

I have several reasons to be angry. But anger doesn't make things easier for anyone in anyway. It further pushes us into deep trouble.

Isn't anger like any other emotion which makes us aware of the life within?? I have hurt people close to me by using hurtful words uttered in anger. Though unintended, they must have for sure scarred their heart. But we all need a let out. Unless the useless stuff leaves our body we can't add anything more useful as its replacement.

So everyone has a right to feel anger, without hurting anyone else.

I am angry, more of helpless, scared may be.

We all are leading our lives as if it is eternal. Hoping for a day when all our problems will vanish. When all our needs will be met, all our desires fulfilled. 

The funny part being before any of our need gets met, another one will already be queued up. 

Life is never going to be easy the way we expect it to be. 

Nevertheless we may become well equipped to deal with any of life's challenges. We may develop that endurance to lead our life the way we intend to lead it.

I have many questions, many reasons to be unhappy. But I choose not to harbour any negative emotions. I have more reasons to be happy than sad. I prefer to be grateful for my blessings to counting my misfortunes.